I know I have this big rep for being a 'shippy het gal based on what I write (which, erm, doesn't exactly reflect what I read, which is pretty much everything. We're talking gen, slash, het of all kinds), but honestly? What I love most are characters (whether friends, lovers, family members, enemies, what have you) interacting with one another and exploring their relationships--groping and kissing, or not. So don't feel beholden. And I admit, I am a huge gen fan as well--so if you are so inclined, I would be thrilled by anything, so long as it's character focused.
And if you need links to info about any of the fandoms, feel free to drop an Anonymous LJ comment or anonymous message via my website and I will post lists of links here.